There are things others did that I can’t tolerate because in my thinking, they can do better but they just don’t want to sacrifice.
And at some points, why do some people can’t think of pleasing others instead of their own needs? Lower their needs to make others happy.
Actually lower their needs a little will not harm everything. But when they don’t do it, makes others suffering.
No one is happy to be the second. The second person you ask when the first one can’t. The second priority is not interesting at all.
When others choose you to be the second of theirs, I think you may feel free to refuse if you’re not happy. If you are, then just accept.
And one simple question, if you can be the first in other’s priority, why you stay to be the second in his/her. It’s simply because of LOVE.
I believe everyone has their own priorities, there’s no right or wrong to be first, second, or last. As long as you can match them, go on…
If doing so makes you suffering, just move on and create a new beginning. Sometimes not all beginning has happy ending.
Sometimes a beginning could end in once upon a time either history.
No need a bullshit promise to please everyone. It might sounds sweet but feeling bitter.