The title of my writing sometimes make me lil bit confuse since I never have a real define of relationship. For me, a relationship means a relation between people, so it can be just friends, family, partner, or spouse. Now, we focus the relationship based on love.
Yeah, this 'love' thing drawing my heart recently and I'm just like bloomy flower. :p
Being with you is one of the best moments in my life. Having a long distance relationship and have chance for only several days spending together make me realize my happiness being around you. It's not I'm not happy with my friends without you, but your attendance complete my happiness. And I'm sure to be with you, changing my memories here with my future memories with you there. Because I'm sure enough you gonna try your best to make me happy and it's the quite brave commitment deserve me to walk the future path with you. Thank you for the care, love, compassion. Stay with me and never let me go.
I know what I want for my relationship. Everyone has their own style of relationship, so do mine. Some of them like to post things with their beloved one telling the world how proud they are. Of course I'm not part of them. It's good and nothing wrong about that, but I have my own style. I don't think I ought to tell everybody if I'm in relationship with someone since I'm not a public figure. It's not my relationship is secret but I'm just too lazy to answer those questions which sometimes annoying or even bullshit from the people who 'just want to know'. I'd better keep mine only for people who have sincere heart to pray for mine. There's a friend ever told me, "Nowadays social media tells everything, I just know she's be with whom but you, you're just so mysterious about yours, but that's you. That's the uniqueness of you. Let the time tells everything."
Yeah I agree with her 'let the time tells everything'. I always hand everything to Mr. Time,every part of my life, sadness or happiness, success or failure, bloomy or broken heart. Mr. Time will heal everything and will let bad things go till I can rise and shine again.
Having him is one of the many grateful things in my life. Through the deep broken heart, wrong men come and go, finally he's just found me as I believe when he's your mate, you just don't need to force things to be together, things will fall perfectly and to make both of you be together, despite of the distance, olds, and other things.
The unpredictable meeting with him and I didn't even have any imagination he is going to be one of the special person in my life. Things moves so fast like you suddenly have an idea how to make that puzzles match each other. I do have lots of weakness and so does he. But, when both of us have a commitment we gonna take this relationship and try our best, then go on. Nobody can match perfectly, you have to try to make it going well.
For single women out there, I just wanna share with you, open your heart, give chances to everybody but still know what's the best for you, don't you ever afraid to fall and break your heart, make friendships with lots of people, friends from your friends, just enjoy and keep adding qualities in your life, and don't you ever stuck in your single life thinking that no man wants to be with you, because someone's out there still looking for you as you waiting for him. And, when he finds you, he will love you with all his best because he finally finds the best girl he's looking for. Never miss any chance knowing someone new to your life because you never know he's the one who can match you.
Maybe some of you think it's so ridiculous but it's all I walked through. How I ever found someone in something called fate among thousand people and how things felt perfectly to both of us, but still it doesn't enough to keep it well, both of us should try and commit, things can't perfectly well when you just hand it to the fate. At the point, both of us can't try our best and can't maintain the relationship anymore, it's time to say goodbye, we just don't match each other.
For relationship, it takes two, both, trying together, making our partner happy, it's all I learn from my last man standing hopefully. He always tell me, " To love is to make your partner happy." It's not love if you can't make her happy. I definitely agree with his statement, it's just a coward statement hearing someone said, "I love to see her happy even without me." It means you aren't brave enough to prove that she can be happy with you so you hand her to somebody else, you even believe other man than yourself. So, for all men out there, if you really loves her, trying your best prove to her that you're the best but give yourself the dateline, when she still can't accept you, maybe she's just not the one. When she's the one, she will try to accept you completely.
So, this is my relationship sharing with you that I'm telling you I'm really happy to have him in my life and I'm writing to you on this Saturday night in a coffee shop because my man is busy thousand miles away preparing his new project and deeply in my heart I'm sending my support and spirit for his good luck. :) Gonna write to you next month and can't wait to meet him next Saturday. Long distance relationship is all about counting downs, flight tickets, quality times, and missing.
So, see you around pals, am sorry from now I am going to call you pals because dear is my calling for him. Don't be sad, you're still one of my best partner. :)